Sunday, October 24, 2010

question time...

no, that was not me hiding behind that dumpster watching you on your daily run. yes, i do know your morning routine. yes, i do know that you pass by the park across from krispie kreme every morning around 7:45am. but that doesn't mean i was following you, watching you, or anticipating seeing you. maybe it's a coincidence. maybe i wanted a powdered doughnut. you don't know... 

same way we ran into each other by your mom's house. your aunts house. your sisters house. your friends. house. yes, i know where they stay, but that doesn't meant i was just driving around waiting for you to stop by. it just so happens my new best friend lives across the street from your mom's house and that's why i was over there. what? yes i know miss walker lives across the street and is 83 years old. but me and her bonded and i've been helping her out with some yard work. that's why your mom has been seeing my car a lot. you act like i looked up your family's addresses and just showed up. i only did that with your uncle because he had mentioned wanting to talk to me about 2 years ago...so yanno. 

and no i didn't hack your facebook or your email. your password is the same for everything. just like i used to log-on it before, i was just curious about the guy who keeps writing on your wall. and when he said he had emailed you, i just wanted to know what he could have possibly wanted. that's all..btw i guess his email password too, and it turns out he has herpes...so heads up. 

and please hurry up and fix your phone. it seems to be broken, because you never pick up or return my calls. i called the operator and the lady at t-moble. she said it's still in service. so what's up with that. i asked her to send me a call log record and you know she actually got an attitude with me? like she didn't believe that i was just trying to make sure your phone was working.

why you backing up. why you scaaaaarred? have i ever hurt you before? have i ever given you that "unsafe" feeling. i wasn't trying to kidnap you, i was just trying to push you in that van so we could talk. i thought since every time you see my car you run away, i rented a van so we'd have some place to sit down and talk. the rope & duct tape in the back seat was for a project i was working on....relax, you act like i'm stalking you or something.

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question of the week: 


Q. what do you consider stalking after a breakup/fight?


people have different ideas of stalking. the october challenge post on stalking was an example of accidental stalking. to me accidental stalking is when someone doesn't realize or it is borderline stalking. meaning the person on the receiving end feels threaten or as if it's too much. but in a emotional state the alleged stalker doesn't realize that their actions are deemed as "stalking". they think they are fighting for the relationship.

which to me is different then the above scenario were it's obvious to both people that stalking behavior exist. so my question is..what do you consider stalking? when does the line of "fighting for the relationship" get crossed into "duct tape/rope in the back of a van"?


6 comments:

LaLa said...

O_O that one just really scared and scarred me. *backing up*

xxxx said...

im too done with you.. you really have a wild imagination. but i was stalked once by a older man it was not fun..

Monique said...

I have a stalker before and almost had to get a restraining order to get rid of him. He used to wait outside my dorm and would tell me my schedule. He had my day down to a science. That as the scariest thing ever.

tha unpretentious narcissist© said...

@lala: yea that's definitely not what you want waiting for you outside your door.

@xxxx: no i don't think it's fun. that's why i'm asking what is your definition of stalking. because that is overtly stalking. but like my mom i think has a stalker. but she thinks he's just a nice lonely guy who has nothing better to do. while i think he's dexter (a serial killer) waiting to happen.

@monique: yea i know how it is. i've had several stalkers. yes. women can be stalkers too. i even had a dude that was with one of my old chicks semi stalk me. wasn't so much scary as it was annoying & aggravating tho.

sunshinestar110 said...

omg..this is my life as we speak *looks over shoulder* i think stalking is any unwanted contact...there are boundaries that are set don't cross them..all that oh i just happened to be here stuff is for the birds u weren't hanging in these places before we broke up dont be there now...smh...after reading this maybe i should be a little bit more concerned about what going on in my life now...lawd have mercy

SJ Is So Unique said...

LOL!! OMG...........This Was CRAZY...
So Many Crazies In The World...smh.