Tuesday, July 13, 2010

is love a trap?...

is love a trap? does it sucker you in just to devour you and spit you back out halfed? i always have random thoughts. random things that just pop into my head from time to time.

is it that we are too blind to see the danger of love? or is it because love is worth the risk? i can honestly say, i am on a mission to love. and to be loved. i think it's one of the greatest gifts given by God. it's free. and when done right gives you one of the greatest feelings in the world.

so what about the not so good feelings? what about the heartbreaks, the arguments, the disagreements? what about the unhappy times. the lonely times. the i'll never feel this way again(s). do we ever figure out love? like even when we're in it. even when we are with someone who is making us happy. do we fully understand what love is? do we fully understand what we're doing?

have you ever just felt that love had it out for you. like it was one of those scams where the people send you a check for a million dollars and tell you to cash it and keep $800,000 of it. like it's just too good to be true & will end up bad. really bad...almost feels like you should just cut your loes up front. just go into it guarded. protect yourself. not give 100% for fear that you'll give too much & get too little.

what kind of love fiend are you? me, i'm a "all in" poker player with a bad poker face. i totally give up all my tells up front. i put all my chips in and i let it ride. of course we all know how these type of situations end. but i'm a risk taker & a believer. i'm betting on the person i'm with, because if i hit. if i get a winning hand (woman)...then the reward will be well worth it.

9 comments:

★Starrla Monae☆ said...

I guess I'm a "prison guarded" type of fiend...I believe I have a ton of room for love. I want to love....this goes back to me being the hopeless romantic. There are so many doors and plenty of open spaces in the chamber just waiting to be filled but at the same time there are also all sorts of barbed wire, electrical fencing and protective forces out front....guess that makes it hard for love to come in huh? Maybe I need to go make an arrest on LOVE! Geez! LoL

Hershley's Sweet Kiss said...

im the type to hold back...watch how things are going...i know how much love can hurt...and i want to avoid it at all cost.

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jazzyjaz said...

I would have to say I'm the poker face fiend. I play the hand that dealt to me with nothing but a straight face. I never let whomever it know if things are going good or bad..I just sit back and watch for their next move. I guess that makes me kind of a hard person to love because you never really know where my heart is at.

Lacy Monroe said...

ugh.. I love Love...but it doesnt seem to love me back.

Beyond Danielle said...

well I've been told that I'm scared to love. That I'm scared to put my all in.... so what kind love fiend am I

sunshinestar110 said...

I have to agree with Lacy...I love Love but love and I broke up along time ago...so i would have to say that because of that i'm real stand off when it comes to love i would have to i'm a prison guard when it comes to love i don't want to be hurt so i keep love far far away from me

Isis said...

i feel like i'll never know that "in love" feeling, b/c i'm always of 2 (or more) minds about everything. like i can't FULLY commit b/c my self-preservation is real serious.

i don't want to lose my mind over anyone...but i do hope to 1 day be in a relationship i can really believe/trust in...a relationship i can earnestly feel was "meant to be", even if it doesn't work out in the end.

JStar said...

OMG....Love has truly had it out for me...But my mistakes...Will they pay off in the end...Will I ever get what I want and need....I am a rider or die type of person when it comes to love...But I am terrified of being hurt again so I run...Trying to learn how to step out there and take that chance...I am sure trying to..

xxxx said...

i am an all in lover, and like you said it hurts. ive been hurt by the same person and continue to be hurt today. does it make me stupid? probably, but i honestly feel like he is worth it, just dont know if he feels the same about me.