Sunday, August 1, 2010

question time..

since last week question got yall involved. i'm gonna hit yall with another one this week. . .


Q. if you could ask your ex "1" question..what would it be & why?


my answer will follow in a follow-up blog.

13 comments:

Piph said...

Honestly, nothing. Everything I want to ask, I've asked him. I'm a straightforward person, if I want to know something I'll ask it. (In all my comments on here, I've been talking about the SAME person. The whole situation is stupid. He's my ex and my lover. Yes, we still talk... and I believe that's bad, when you caught up in the web of love, it makes you do stupid things.)

birdie said...

I think I’d ask ‘what one moment in our relationship sticks out most in your mind, regardless if it was good or bad’. I pretty much know why all the relationships ended so I wouldn’t ask about that. I think I’d be interesting to see if we have the same moment.

DaBossBitch said...

Why are you trying to love me now and never tried the 9 years I cried and begged for you to love me?

He was so callous and nasty to me the whole time. I would beg him and ask why he didn't care about my feelings and his answer was "because I don't want to". Now that I'm gone he's all the sudden in love with me.

Monique said...

After 4 years, why is it so hard to be my friend?

JStar said...

My ex and I are still friends and he wants me back...so there is nothing I would ask him

jazzyjaz said...

wow..its alot of things I want to ask him>>>but let me ...hmmmmm..

What did I do that was so bad that you would up and leave our son behind with no contact?

Alovelydai said...

Are you happy?

hightopsandpearls said...

Hmmmm... Why did you build me up to let me down?

sunshinestar110 said...

well ok....Why did you give up on me?

tha unpretentious narcissist© said...

@piph: we all do bad things when it comes to love. lol. i'm glad you got all your questions answered. me, like a few ppl who commented would LOVE to have someone answer that burning questions that burns us up and makes us want to spit nails at someone lol..

@birdie: that's actually a great ass question. it would be cool if it was the same moment. almost like a confirmation that yall both felt the same at one point.

@dabossbitch: that happens a lot. people don't realize what they have till it's gone. and don't want it till they can't have it back. his loss was someone else's gain..now when he ask, "why don't you love me". you answer, "i don't want to..." lol.

@monique: i actually get asked that question a lot. for me, (and it's funny cause i was just talking about this the other day) if we can't be together...being your friend is not what i'm looking for. i find that moreso when a woman breaks up with me and still wants my friendship and everything that brings but not me. to me it's like...we can't go back to that. you can't half what we were and take the part you want. you chose not to be with me, so now..be without me. on the other side of that. i find sometimes when there are still feelings. still bitterness it's hard to let go and just be friend. it's hard to speak to them, because everything is so different.

@Jstar: in other words.."he got shit he wanna ask me..but i'm good" lol. i'm glad you got the upper hand...

@jazzyjaz: damn..that's a very good question. but i'd rephrase that. because someone doing that is not your fault. change that to, "what happen to the man i thought i knew who would up and leave me & his child with no contact". don't ever blame yourself (even in thinking) for someone's shortcomings.

@alovelydai: get out my head. that is my question as well. wow..feels like you should win a prize or some shit. too bad this is not that kinda game show..lol

@hightopsandpearls: if they built you up, then stand tall and walk on. people often build you up to the point where they can no longer reach the level you're at.

@sunshinestar110: cause he was stupid. end game, point. *smile*..me & you still gonna fight tho.

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xxxx said...

Did you ever really care? I mean you said you cared, you told me you loved me, but did you really?

Alee said...

I guess I'm exempt from this question seeing as to how I've never had a real relationship in my entire 22 years on this planet.

*Shakes head*

But if I cared enough, I might ask some of the guys I used to "talk to" why they were dumb enough to lose someone like me.

luvlymskrissy said...

How did you become such a great actor? Did you take classes and become a master at it? Have you won an Oscar yet? And what makes you not wanna meet the beautiful little girl you helped create?