Monday, April 4, 2011

tell your girlfriend...


you don't tell her you love her. don't remind her she's beautiful. don't treat her like a woman. you don't give her what she needs.

but you're mad at me.

you don't kiss her like it's your last. you don't touch her like it's new. you don't look at her like she's the only woman in the world.

but you're mad at me.

you don't say the things she likes.
do the things she wants.
ask her how she feels.
show her that she matters.

but you're mad at me.

you're mad because your girl recognizes the qualities in me that you don't possess. you're mad because she wishes, hopes, prays that one day you'll appreciate her. you can't blame me. you can't blame her. you should blame yourself.

you should blame yourself for neglecting her. you should blame yourself for disrespecting her. you should blame yourself for not realizing that you had the world. you had everything you needed. you just never thought she'd realize she didn't need you.

you cheated on her and now you see the chick you're with isn't 1/10  of the woman you left. all she's did was move you out the way for me. ay..tell you new girlfriend i said thanks. it's because of her i found a woman who wants to love someone. and i'm man enough to love her back.


DianaBoss said...

You got me right in my heart with this one UN.

Piph said...

You fucking rule.

Your blog is the only reason I still get on here.

Anonymous said...

I love this one. Its too true. I told my sister the other day(because her husband is being a dick) " once you're gone, the next man will appreciate you like he never did and he'll be the one with the shitty ass regret on his face"

lilioohpyt said...

*prints* I was just having this convo with my bd last night...I think he needs to hear it from a man's pov because obviously he thinks im a game.....somebody is about to get checked!

sunshinestar110 said...

*sigh*....these are the moments i luv you....but don't tell nobody!

Eyes On The Prize (eyesOTP) said...

You're my internet crush...for real. I love what you write.

★Starrla Monae☆ said...

Where is he? Does he need my address? Does he need a box to mail himself to me in? I'm just saying...

tha unpretentious narcissist© said...

@dianaboss: really? wow...*putting your heart in my pocket*..i'll sell it back to you later. lol

@piph: for real? aww..i feel all special. thanks and i'ma hit you back on email in a minute been a trying few days for me.

@luvlymskrissy: grrr@ your sister husband. he's her husband he should know better..

@lilioohpyt: you bout the check him huh? lol. it's really not a game. there are plenty of guys who are ready to give you the things he won't. that's what guys don't get. not telling a chick you love her. she's beautiful..those things are essential. this is shit she can hear walking down the street. buying coffee. but from you it means much more. but when you never say it, other's saying it peak her interest.

@sunshinestar110: i won't tell nobody. won't take your "i hate ATL" badge thanks

@eyesOTP: aww your internet crush..*flexing* thanks

@starrla monae: if he arrives in a box, you should be worried...i'm just saying lol

1515 said...

Ya dude you are a douche.. you don't see both side of the playing field.

1515 said...

what happens if your girl doesn't contribute, but controls you, doesn't support you, and tells you everything you do is wrong? (narcissist) and she is the one telling me she can find someone better?

tha unpretentious narcissist© said...

@1515: I'm a douche cause I appreciate women? Every woman..scratch that everyone deserves to be appreciated. There isn't another side to what I posted. What your chick did to you, she hasn't done to me. Her being controlling & non supportive is one of those things where you see her w/ the next dude & think to yourself.."dude has no clue what he's in for"..but either way you don't get mad at me. Focus your anger on her, not the other dude. Just a manlaw..gonna let the douche comment slide.