tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post6587673110383646128..comments2023-10-25T04:49:05.924-04:00Comments on i am tha unpretentious narcissist: manfive friday #70tha unpretentious narcissist©http://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-57610011754060315262011-03-07T21:28:44.133-05:002011-03-07T21:28:44.133-05:00.Chymere.: i agree racism still exist and will alw....Chymere.: i agree racism still exist and will always exist. having a black president is no different than ending slavery or segregation. "monumental" moments only mean something to people who accept and change due to them. if you do neither then you continue to live in that "before" moment where things nor you will ever change. long rant short...as long as people are ignorant and insist on living that way there will always be racist. just can't understand why in this day and age people care or worry about what other people are doing or how they are living their own life.<br /><br />@ Dianaboss: nothing cynical to say? whaaaaat? lol<br /><br />@Alee: thanks. and i agree. someone treating you right is on the top of my list before a lot of the other silly things ppl focus on when it comes to dating.<br /><br />@lilioohpyt: lol@ the side eye & big sigh. at least he opened your eyes to something a lot of people are too closeminded to accept.tha unpretentious narcissist©https://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-13145829465300272072011-03-05T15:55:19.589-05:002011-03-05T15:55:19.589-05:00Two Points that you made that made me smile:
1.&q...Two Points that you made that made me smile:<br /><br />1."i never understand why women waste time trying to figure out why certain men don't want to be with them. it's the guy's loss. let him be with who he wants to be with. disliking a women that looks like you, comes from the same place as you, and shares the same history is ignorant. you don't have to counter ignorance with ignorance. "<br /><br />2."they were fed the wrong portrait of what a black woman is. and they are unable to respect black women in the manner in which the deserve. either way..it has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. their hatred of you, is a reflection of their hatred of themselves. don't ever doubt yourself. just be thankful you don't have to waste time or energy on their dumb ass"<br /><br />I was never into bashing a man because he dated a woman out of his race, I think alot of it had to do with from the time I was 5 I was introduced to it. My neice is half black / half mexican and because I loved her I never looked down on my brother for having her with a woman outside of our race. He even went on to have another child with a white woman and several black women *insert side eye and big sigh* and I always looked at them (all races) like why are ya'll dating him (yes my kin). (see #3)Lilioohpythttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13875807827941902104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-68365124555133233062011-03-05T15:29:39.251-05:002011-03-05T15:29:39.251-05:00It's always nice to hear about this topic from...It's always nice to hear about this topic from an honest black man's point of view. I used to be one of those black women who was offended to hear about black men only dating other races, but my perspective changed when I realized that I have a hard time relating to them so I might as well take a couple notes from them and date whoever I want to. I couldn't care less about a guy's race. If there's chemistry and he treats me right, I'm good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-62161212297726645352011-03-05T11:26:20.579-05:002011-03-05T11:26:20.579-05:00Nice post. I don't even have my usual cynical ...Nice post. I don't even have my usual cynical remark.DianaBosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13288601023447478452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-69264293847201770912011-03-05T11:20:09.094-05:002011-03-05T11:20:09.094-05:00I just don't get why it's still an issue. ...I just don't get why it's still an issue. Why can't people just be in love?? I admitt it used to offend me to see Black men with white women. I used to think that white women just found a thrill out of it and that men thought it was winning a prize. But I grew to understand that interracial interactions happen all over the color spectrum not just black and white. I've met Asian guys who love black women, white boys who like Mexican women etc. I myself don't care about color. As much as I know about slavery and my history from all sides of my very interracial family, I just don't see color. Beauty comes in all forms throught my eyes and race isn't even something I bring up with my friends who are a different color than me...because most times we grew up in the same enviroment.<br /><br />On the contrary, racism still exist in America...and a black president didn't change that fact one bit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com