tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post5579506270509840265..comments2023-10-25T04:49:05.924-04:00Comments on i am tha unpretentious narcissist: ask me. . .tha unpretentious narcissist©http://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-41967698778145841042010-04-08T16:05:12.166-04:002010-04-08T16:05:12.166-04:00@epitome: you just coming all up on here calling f...@epitome: you just coming all up on here calling folks rude. lol. i'm glad you agree & see the error of your ways. bad guys aren't good at any stage, they just are road bumps to good guys, because you learn what a man shouldn't be from them.<br /><br />@sushiela: yanno it took me a minute to figure out this was you ice machine. lol. thanks for you comment, you always hit me up with some good shit. i agree with what you're saying too. <br /><br />@freckles: thanks. i hate that being a bad ass is sexually attractive to women. i get in this argument with chicks all the time. why it's so much easier for a guy who has "attitude swagger" to get at you then a guy who does everything to treat you right. nice guys gets grouped as friends. bad dudes get the panties the first night. wtf is wrong with that shit...<br /><br />@epiphany: thanks, i'm glad you got something from it.<br /><br />@luvlymskrissy: sushiela is always on point even when i don't agree with her. lol. i agree nice women get treated the same way. nice people should not be runners up. we should not get treated worse because we treat you better. i'm glad you know that "nice guys" is where it's at..<br /><br />@beyond danielle: tell them to kick them rocks. lol and off topic..i'm mad you really got rid of your twitter. come back to twitter. before i twitter reincarnate you. lol.<br /><br />@sunshinestar110: yall really gonna go after this chick huh? lol. my blog bodyguards and what not. i agree the chase of the thrill is what does it. but once you've caught it you realize there isn't anything there. thank you, once again for your comment and your blog gangstatha unpretentious narcissist©https://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-10564852152625613092010-04-08T11:55:18.202-04:002010-04-08T11:55:18.202-04:00I agree with Epitome about the person who wrote yo...I agree with Epitome about the person who wrote you it explain so much about her..<br /> The bad boy thing is not how you should see your future. it comes a time in your life when you grow up and get yourself a man who can respect you and himself. How long are u going to chase the thrill of an "bad" guy....and I salute u because i couldn't have said all that u wrote better myself.sunshinestar110https://www.blogger.com/profile/06482675481139199030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-3596133896986199352010-04-08T10:23:31.631-04:002010-04-08T10:23:31.631-04:00I don't understand how woman want to have aggr...I don't understand how woman want to have aggression in a relationship... Ladies there is nothing like a nice guy, do you understand compromise. Most bad guys don't compromise, don't help around the house, don't care about your needs, and pretty much don't care about you. As opposed to a nice guy who might go out of his way to make sure your happy. To me there is no comparison. Bad guys kick rocksBeyond Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14001796052265096400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-59539378970102409202010-04-08T09:47:07.353-04:002010-04-08T09:47:07.353-04:00Sushielasushielas comment is on point like a mufuc...Sushielasushielas comment is on point like a mufucca! Lol I would like to add tho that I really hate that nice guys have to be someone to settle for when broads get tired of bad boys. Like bad boys are for havin fun with but nice guys are for havin a family when ur done popppin ur cooch in the club? Smh. That shit irks me to no end. <br /><br />And what's relateable is that nice girls get dealt the exact same hand as nice guys. Like why do we have to be bitches or have to argue or have to do any of that crap to maintain a relationship. Dudes will leave a nice girl for a bitch and them try and win the nice one back when being with the bitch gets too hectic. Nice people are not runner up. <br /><br />I've always only dated nice guys. I love em. Don't need the bs in my life and I always want men who are just as low key as I am. Let's chill together and have a pleasant relationship with minimal hiccups.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-38350700073470957352010-04-08T09:37:33.930-04:002010-04-08T09:37:33.930-04:00I agree with Epitome about the female who asked th...I agree with Epitome about the female who asked that question - she definitely could've worded it different. This is a good post. I learned from it actually lol. Thanks.Piphhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10378408638030537249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-41318370879469341692010-04-08T04:28:52.838-04:002010-04-08T04:28:52.838-04:00Very well said sir. I can truly say that I can ap...Very well said sir. I can truly say that I can appreciate a nice guy. He seems to have all the good conversation. He makes good eye contact and sincerely cares for what is being said. He is not confrontational and prefers not to argue. He likes to have a good time. He knows his role as man and I know my role as woman. To be honest, sometimes Mr. Nice Guy is not as sexually attractive but he sure does pay attention. Sometimes, women get caught out of their roles and do not allow themselves to truly be treated like a lady. Not too mention self esteem should not a luxury. That bad guy is not with you for that anyway.<br /><br />Kudos on this great post and prayer for the woman that questioned and all others like her.Freckleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11404989189386062782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-32143851308903417182010-04-07T21:03:18.429-04:002010-04-07T21:03:18.429-04:00i agree with all of this post...especially people ...i agree with all of this post...especially people taking kindness or agreeability for weakness...it's funny because in your lingo i think would fall under "selfish" but i'm definitely a "nice girl". not a "good girl" necessarily (you know i'm not the type to wait too long before getting to the goods) but i'm nice. not dumb nice like letting you use my name to take out lines of credit but...if you wanna talk, i'll talk. you have an unfortunate event and need a ride somewhere, i'll give you one. i will pay for a date, if we are chillin w/your family they will probably love me after the 1st time meeting me, i don't like to argue about shit, especially not stupid shit...<br />not because i'm weak...not because i'm afraid to lose you...i just don't care about a lot...i know no one is perfect so as long as i feel like you are treating me respectfully & our relationship could have a genuine future...i try to make the experience positive.<br />it annoys me that people take niceness for granted...& then get all surprised to find out i'm not a pushover. <br /><br />i think people get caught up in labels...this good guy vs. bad guy thing is a mindfuck. a guy who always only agrees with you is not a "good guy"...that is weak. nothing is good about a guy who is so desperate to hold onto someone that he never asserts himself. <br /><br />on the contrary, nothing is 'strong' about a guy who acts like he's in a relationship with you 40-70% of the time but refuses to put in effort or show any type of genuine concern for you. <br /><br />those labels are confusing b/c yeah it's good if a guy is dedicated to you, affectionate, agrees with you, likes to be around you...but it's not good if he has to be around 24/7, or is manipulative with emotional theatrics or jealous, insecure, etc...<br /><br />and if a dude is coming at you like look i like you but i'm tryna do me, i'm not gon call you every day, i'm not really affectionate...that doesn't make him a bad guy, just makes him not boyfriend material...but if you not lookin to be cuffed up...that would be more attractive to you than the dude hoping the next woman he sees is his soulmate.sushihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07712136886724144885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-7115071726015601272010-04-07T20:22:58.816-04:002010-04-07T20:22:58.816-04:00Okay...so first off, the person who asked that que...Okay...so first off, the person who asked that question is really rude...maybe you deal with guys who are "bad" because you aren't very tactful...no shade but for real ma, that could have been worded ALOT better. <br /><br />Now as far as the content of the blog...I agree 1000000%. I actually am looking for a nice guy because I want the house, the 2.5 kids, the picket fence...you don't get that with bad boys. Bad boys were fun when I was in high school, when I thought I had nothing to lose, but now...no thanks, I want to build a future, not get stuck on a dead end.Epitomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166896975087011611noreply@blogger.com