tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post2359204675987814856..comments2023-10-25T04:49:05.924-04:00Comments on i am tha unpretentious narcissist: manfive friday #50tha unpretentious narcissist©http://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-48634454624166339492010-07-25T07:10:20.023-04:002010-07-25T07:10:20.023-04:00@alovelydai: i agree, we are the only culture that...@alovelydai: i agree, we are the only culture that thinks that we throw our kids to the wolves defenseless. i'm not a guy who would allow my son to live with me past a certain age, because i'd do what i could to help him get out my house and into his own. i believe as a man there are certain things you need to have in your life. and before he could offer a woman anything, he'd have to have things that i as his parent would help he obtain. whether that was through a degree, a loan, a direction. the only way i'm throwing any of my kids out into the world is with a plan. <br /><br />@ciara denise: thanks. and that's true too. i think if you can't even SEE where a dude live, there is something strange going on with that. <br /><br />@monique: thanks for approving this message. lol. 40 isn't bad for a woman. honestly if my little girl wanted to live with me forever i'd be fine with that. maybe because i don't have a girl yet...lol. but i'm saying. i feel like until you give your daughter away she's yours. so i'd keep her. and be steady telling her ass what to NOT do. <br /><br />@beyond danielle: i 100% agree, that no one should be bringing jump offs by the house. it's almost the standard you'd hold your parent to. like if your mom or dad was single. and they started bringing hoes through the house..it's like you don't even respect me enough to do that some place else?..<br /><br />@isis: thanks. and i agree. i think the support from parents is important. i tell a lot of ppl who are home with their parents, take advantage of the help. if someone is willing to help you save your money..let them help you. save. work towards something. if i had someone paying all my major bills, i'd be on that shit in a heartbeat too. <br /><br />@alee: i see you with you.."makes me think". to each their own. i don't think i'd want to be seeing somebody mama or daddy every time i'm chilling with them either lol.<br /><br />@epitome: i can respect that. that's how i feel about a lot of issues women have with men. it's almost like..."it's good for me, but not for you. but i do think as a man you have the responsibility to actually be responsible. and for the 10 men a woman has to choose from. the guys with their own places will rank higher, because they have something to offer that the 1 guy doesn't.tha unpretentious narcissist©https://www.blogger.com/profile/08074713706601698534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-70200665438164223352010-07-24T21:24:40.505-04:002010-07-24T21:24:40.505-04:00I never seek from a man something that I don't...I never seek from a man something that I don't have myself....with that said, I still live at the homefront with the parental units so who am I to dismiss a guy because he lives with his? <br /><br />Now with THAT said...if I had my own digs a man who lived with his peoples would be a no goEpitomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166896975087011611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-80814257507271556162010-07-24T00:23:37.189-04:002010-07-24T00:23:37.189-04:00There's some logic to this... Makes me think t...There's some logic to this... Makes me think twice about considering dating a guy who still lived at home with mom and dad. I said "makes me think" not "I will" though.... lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-18975413819949863432010-07-23T14:58:01.376-04:002010-07-23T14:58:01.376-04:00in my head is the standard that i don't wanna ...in my head is the standard that i don't wanna date a guy who lives at home. <br />but i feel like with this economy...shit like that is out the window...if i could live with my parents & be sane, i would be there in a heartbeat. not just to save money, but also like someone pointed out, it can be nice to be with your family. most of my immigrant friends either live w/their parents until they get married/in a serious relationship, or they live in a big house/apartment with their siblings & stay there until they marry/are in a serious relationship. <br /><br />like this post!luz carmelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372944418676519501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-46419323956055544852010-07-23T14:11:54.175-04:002010-07-23T14:11:54.175-04:00theres nothing like a man with a place you can kic...theres nothing like a man with a place you can kick back and relax... and first hand a man with his mother's hand in his pocket is a dead end road. Eventually they'll start dipping in your pockets. Really men or woman should live with parents. It's really disrespectful to be grown and bringing company over espeacially if your not sure if that's the one you want to be with.Beyond Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14001796052265096400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-8396094070386951822010-07-23T10:33:52.916-04:002010-07-23T10:33:52.916-04:00My name is Mo and I agree with this post. :D I'...My name is Mo and I agree with this post. :D I've dated guys that have lived at home but it was shortlived because the failed in one of the areas mentioned above. Sure I may have seen potential but the truth of his mooching ways came out and I had to go. I have an aunt that lived at home until she was 40. 40!Moniquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09827625567697800795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-79080062068043629382010-07-23T08:40:26.212-04:002010-07-23T08:40:26.212-04:00I am way too grown to be sneaking in and out of so...I am way too grown to be sneaking in and out of someone's house or muffling any sounds that might seep out, so yeah ... out of the question. Plus there are some shady dudes that say they live with parents {or grandparents} and you can't come over when they are really living with their woman. So, if there are restrictions ladies ... BEWARE. Love this post, you do have some valids.Ciara Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03388823741755638021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-338685884822865314.post-58902256250855291852010-07-23T08:04:36.263-04:002010-07-23T08:04:36.263-04:00My hubby lived with his mom before we started dati...My hubby lived with his mom before we started dating. He was a "slave" to helping her but also had major cash in the bank. Soon after he moved out & once we got serious & married he had the money to buy our 1st home. I don't knock any man living at home. We seem to be the only culture that kick our kids out at 18. Other cultures pool their resources together until they're married & then they leave the nest.Alovelydaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171624068870358764noreply@blogger.com